If you look away and just turn your back on those you don’t understand, you’ll regret it someday. Accept what’s happening before your eyes as a fact. That’s a shortcut to becoming an adult. When a man faces fear, his soul is tested. What he was born to seek… what he was born to achieve… his true nature will become clear.
A perfect plan doesn’t mean having everything go within expectations. A perfect plan is achieved when it has the elasticity needed to flexibly deal with troubles.
“Unless we change how we think, we cannot become the victor. If we only focus on making the best moves, we will never get the better of it. When necessary, we must also be willing to take big risks, and be prepared to lose everything. Do you always want to live hiding behind the mask you put up for the sake of others?! You’re you! and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you begin to regret, you’ll dull your future decisions and end up letting others making decisions for you.
Nobody can foretell the outcome. Each decision you make holds meaning only by affecting your next decision. You can’t change anything unless you can discard part of yourself too.
I don’t know which option you should choose. I could never advise you on that… No matter what kind of wisdom dictates you the option you pick, no one will be able to tell if it’s right or wrong until you arrive to some sort of outcome from your choice.
Everyone can make a choice after they have learned what it will result in. It is so easy to say we should have done it this way afterwards. But you can’t know what your choice will result in before actually choosing. The difference between your decision and to others could be experience, but you don’t have to rely on that, CHOOSE… Believe in yourself, or believe on the people around you. You can believe in your own abilities or the choices of the companions you trust. But no one ever knows how it will turn out. So choose for yourself, whichever decision you think best or you think you will regret the least. There’s no time to worry if it will turn out right or wrong, just think that if you are in a horror kind of living, you can’t hope for a horror story with a happy ending! so make for yourself a happy ending, and that begins by choosing.
~Shingeki No Kyojin
“Because of our weaknesses, we trained our eyes, ears and the ability to think. Learning how to survive, that’s the traits of humans who are used to experience oppression! But because of our weaknesses,
we gained the wisdom to survive from those with power and the intelligence to see through it!
We don’t have any extraordinary things, but because we are weak, by learning and gaining experience, we gained the wisdom to achieve the seemingly impossible for us to achieve and we are now able to predict and anticipate what lies ahead.
There is more than one way to win the game, where you can win without fighting!
In every time, in every world, the strong polish their fangs while the weak polish their wits.
A way for the weak to stay weak, but still defeat the strong. A way to stay who you are but surpasses your limits.
To soar through the sky, even if you can’t fly. The weak can always find a way, inside despair, suffering and darkness.
If someone wishes to fly, will that let him grow wings? I don’t think so. You don’t change yourself, You change how you approach the challenges of life,
A temporary defeat is nothing if it leads to ultimate victory!
In reality, the least interesting answer
is usually the correct one.”
“It feels like time is passing so quickly, Your science is crowding in on! The passage of time depends entirely on where you’re standing…. Relativity Theory… it’s so romantic… But it’s just so tragic too…
The ‘Present’ is a leaf floating on top of the river, It moves along with the flow from past to future. And one thing is for sure, You can run away from the ghosts of what is behind, but it will just make it worse!
Keep the past, for all intents and purposes, and leave it where it is.
If you want to grant your own wish, then you should clear your own path to it.”
Just don’t forget that the ‘Right Thing’ if it is paired with the ‘Wrong Time’, it will end up being ‘The Wrong Thing’.
You can deceive yourself but you cannot messed with time.
“There were only humble wishes that were simply natural to any human.
Who could ever disclaim such dreams and such vows?
Who could ever have the right to do that?
However, whoever you might be, without choice, you have to deal with others and with the world, and have yourself be regulated and settled down.
Therefore, in the face of the world’s wills, your personal speculations are short-lived they can’t help being overwhelmed. Iniquities and punishments, destiny and judgment. What stands in front of a person is the past he brought forth by himself.
Is it a hatred resulting from the fact that humans are humans? Nonetheless, we should be grateful… Yes, at least, to the fact that humans are the beings who look for happiness.”
“To take responsibility is to take the pain into yourself. It means to bear more pain than what others felt because of your mistake. Humans could sometimes become an animal where they are governed by emotions, once their mind becomes destabilized, they become unable to perform the simplest of tasks that’s why those who think they can win by skill alone are the ones who will definitely fall.
The rest is up to you. Either do nothing and watch your fate be decided or do something even though it seems pointless.
That’s the world we live in. If you don’t do something yourself, nothing will change. But if you work, if you do something, something will definitely change. No matter how small or devastating an opportunity or damage is, never ignore it. Always take everything into account. Anything can become a weapon when used properly and turn it to your advantage.
Blank out your mind, remove all distractions, and focus solely on what matters most. Always put in mind that the thing about a low probability is that, it’s not yet zero
because even a point blank percentage could change a person’s fate.
That is why when a person is so victorious is also when they are at most vulnerable.”
If you were asked, ‘what is romance?’ what would you say?
In the past 2 years, I’ve came across on different answers, and believe me, they are too many to count. But as i live my life on to day to day basis, keeping an eye of those who are around me and the society, I have come into a conclusion about life in different aspects, in the aspect of romance, i have to say that the way a person defines it is the way that person will get it.
So? ‘what is romance then?’ i will put it this way.
“When we guide romance with wisdom we have skillful romance – romance that is directed by what is true about God and about the world He has made.
I like to think that the relationship between wisdom and romance is like the one between a string and a kite. Romantic love is the kite that catches the mind and tenaciously heads for the sky; wisdom is the string that tags downward, holding it back. The tension is real, but healthy.
I suppose there are times when a kite feels tied down by the string. “If this bothersome string would just let go of me, I could fly really high”, the kite might think. But that isn’t true, is it? Without the string holding it in the face of the wind, the kite would quickly come crashing to the ground. In the same way, romance without wisdom will soon take a nosedive. It becomes selfish, indulgent, and even idolatrous.” – J.H
You might be saying, “alright, romance should be paired with wisdom but how could i find wisdom?” the answer is simple, come to the source. We may have a lot of difference when it comes to this matter but in my own perspective and opinion i have to come with this answer.
A romantic relationship or shall we say ‘ROMANCE’ will become successful
if Christ is the center of it.
“I am by my own admission, a hopeless romantic.
If such a thing is possible, I am in love with being in love.
There’s nothing else quite like it, and if you’ve experienced it, you know what I mean. Being in love is a patchwork of a thousand indescribable moments, nervous energy runs through your body whenever you think of that special person, which is in every waking minute, you lose interest in the dull chores of eating, sleeping, and thinking rationally, you discover that every love song on the radio was written for you, it seems that someone has removed blinders from your eyes and you can see the world full of wonder and mystery and happiness.
I love love. But I’ve come to realize that I don’t really know much about it. Oh, I can tell you all about the warm, fuzzy side of love. I can throw myself into romance with all the passion of Romeo, but in God’s school of true love, I’m afraid I’m still in kindergarten.
To me and other romantics who share a “love for love,” God wants us to give us a higher, grander view. He wants to deepen our understanding, romance can thrill us to our core, but it’s only a small part of true love.
We’eve been playing in the sandbox, God wants to take us to the beach.
“Just because something is good doesn’t mean we should pursue it right now. We have to remember that the right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.”